VDDC: Clean yourself up & Dress well.

How you appear is important. Girls spend a lot of time on their "looks" and they notice when guys put in the effort. By doing something extra, you automatically make yourself more appealing to women. If you're doing the stylelife challenge this is nothing new to you cause Day 5 is all about your looks. If you're not doing the stylelife challenge, look online for help or ask reliable people. There are NO EXCUSES!

When you go shopping or going out to get groomed watch your body language and your attitude. Keep your head up and make eye contact with EVERYONE and smile. Girls love to give their opinions so ask them what they think. Make small talk with everyone. and keep it POSITIVE. If the conversation turns negative do your best to spin it back to the positive. You may meet your V-Day date while you're shopping or getting groomed.

Get help. Find a friend (male or female) to help you. Explain what you want to accomplish and have them support you through the next week.

If you're a person who has a lot of negative-self talk (I suck, this sucks, That was awful, etc). Do yourself a favor and replace every negative thought with a positive one. Enlist your friends to help you stay positive. Positive thoughts bring positive things. Here are some positive things to tell yourself:

~I am so happy.
~I am so grateful.
~I am powerful.
~I am loved.
~I am charming.
~I am unique.
~I am a delight to talk to.
~I am deserving.

Repeat these phrases or make your own and repeat them to yourself throughout your day. Any time your mind starts wondering, remember to say something positive to yourself. Look online for more positive affirmations. Your mind is a power tool, if you're not using it to its potential you're missing out on its benefits.

Take this last weekend before Valentine's Day to your advantage.

GET GROOMED:
If you have no extra money (like me) than look online for free or non-expensive ways to groom yourself. (home-made skin treatments, hair styles suggestion, fashion tips, etc) THIS IMPORTANT.

Things to keep in mind:

~You should bath daily (especially all the days leading up to V-Day) No excuses...be clean

~Treat your skin well. If you start now your skin could be glowing by V-Day

~ Consider shaving or removing all excess hair, girls will appreciate this (back, neck, eyebrow, ear, nose, etc).

~ Don't be sweaty...it's gross. Seriously do what you have to avoid sweat stains. Yuck.

~Finger nails and toes nails should be trimmed. Trust me she'll appreciate it.

~Find a good smelling cologne or other product (Cuban smells great)

~It doesn't matter how well you look if your breath stinks. Do something about it.

~You're feet shouldn't stink.

~Get a haircut if you haven't in the last 6 weeks. Consider a new hairstyle. Pay as much as you can afford and take your time.


GET FASHIONABLE:
Go in your closet and find 3 outfits that fit you well and convey a sense of fashion. If you do NOT have three outfits that fit well go shopping. If you don't have a lot of money to go shopping, go to a trendy thrift store. If you're buying clothes. Buy clothes you can mix and match, you'll get more uses/looks out of them.

Find or buy ONE really killer outfit for V-day. And then have two alternatives to wear leading up to V-Day. You're V-day outfit should be smoking.

The shoulder seams on your shirts should lay just at the top of your shoulder. If your shoulder seams lie over your shoulder, on your arm, your shirt DOES NOT FIT and girls can tell.

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If you're buying clothes. Buy clothes you can mix and match, you'll get more uses/looks out of them.